Nov 03, 1944---Oct 12, 2024

John Harvey Wilcox, 79, of Overland Park, KS passed away on Saturday, October 12, 2024. Visitation will be from 9:30-11:00 AM followed by the Funeral Mass at 11:00 AM Wednesday, October 16, at Church of the Holy Cross, 8311 W. 93rd, Overland Park, KS 66212. In lieu of flowers, the family has requested that remembrances be made in the form of contributions to Kansas City Hospice & Palliative Care.

Harvey was born November 3, 1944, in Kansas City, KS. He was a member of Holy Cross Catholic Church, United Way and the Cosmopolitan Club of Overland Park. Harvey retired from Southwestern Bell in 2001 after 36 years of service. He was a passionate sports fan cheering on the Chiefs, Royals, Wildcats and Jayhawks. He enjoyed poker with friends and trips to the casino with his wife. He took great joy watching his grandchildren’s activities. Harvey cherished any time spent with family and friends. He was preceded in death by his wife of 59 years Sue (Hubbard) Wilcox, his parents Roy, Sr. and Mary (Klein) Wilcox, and brother Roy Wilcox, Jr. Harvey is survived by three children Barbara (Rick) Simpson, Baltimore, MD, Joe (Lisa) Wilcox, Olathe, KS, Jeff (Allison) Wilcox, Overland Park, KS, sisters Elaine Heck and Joyce Dehaemers, seven grandchildren; Tyler (Anna) Simpson, Deanna (Antony) Benavides, Katherine Wilcox, Emily Wilcox, Hannah Wilcox, Hunter Wilcox, Timothy Wood, three great grandchildren Ewan Simpson, Henry Simpson and Kaia Benavides and extended family and friends.



Condolences

Steve Oct 14, 2024

What a great picture of your father. That's how I picture my uncle "Harvey" always with a smile on his face. Always with something fun to say. Was always fun to be around. So glad I got to talk to him and see him again a few weeks ago. Good bless him, what a great man. My thoughts are with all of you.

Anne Wanamaker Oct 14, 2024

Caregiver and friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

So very sorry to hear of your dad’s passing. I was blessed to get to know both he and your mom over the past year. Once again, I share in your grief. I do hope you find some comfort knowing your mom and dad are together again. Harvey was alway so kind to me and so very caring of your mother. He spoke of his children and grandchildren with such pride and shared many family stories with me. What a legacy! I will keep you all in my prayers in the coming days! In Christ’s Love and with mine, Anne Wanamaker

James Doherty Oct 14, 2024

Friend ,Brock ,Texas

Thank you so much Harvey was Truly “A man who mattered greatly in my life and I will always be thankful for how he took the time to guide me when I was first promoted into management, Harvey was my first boss (True Mentor) Harvey was A “Man That Mattered” Jim Doherty

Gary Crosley Oct 15, 2024

Co worker ,Lees Summit ,Missouri

I worked for Harvey for several years at Southwestern Bell. he was a man of integrity and a good friend. Rest in peace Harvey.

gerald ewing Oct 15, 2024

Fellow Bell Employee ,belton

He was a wonderful man to work for. So understanding and helpful.

Marybeth Vader Kennedy Oct 15, 2024

lifelong friend ,Frankfort ,Kansas

To the Harvey Wilcox Family, Harvey actually introduced me to my deceased husband, when we attended Donnelly College. He and Joe were a year ahead of me and met at school, and became friends when I was still in high school. When I went to Donnelly the next year, Harvey "hounded me" for months until I agreed to go out with Joe, which would be a double date with Harvey and Sue. The rest, as they say, is history. We were married less than a year later! Please accept my most sincere condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you, as you mourn the deaths of your wonderful Mom and Dad. Sincerely, Marybeth Vader Kennedy

Jan Majewski Oct 15, 2024

Friend ,Leawood ,Kansas

A good man and long ago friend. Walt and I spent many years going to lake, playing cards and eating dinner at each other’s houses. Much laughter and support from them and from us to them. I had no idea Sue had passed and how hard it must of been for Harvey. Bless them both Barbara, Joe and Jeff will keep you in our prayers and please know we cared a great deal about your parents, but know they are in a better place. Walt and Jan Majewski

Steve Graf Oct 16, 2024

Coworker ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Harvey was my boss and mentor as I moved into management at Southwestern Bell. I tried to rile his feathers when I could but he always had a fitting response. I learned a lot from Harvey and always had a great respect for him. We retired about the same time and we spoke a bit on the phone and he had a great way of reminding me of some of my more embarrassing exploits. He's one of the cornerstone men of my life.

Rod Strohl Oct 17, 2024

Co worker and friend ,Arlington ,Texas

Harvey was a great friend, a helpful co-worker, and a dedicated employee of Southwestern Bell. I worked with Harvey for a number of years and I’m a better person for having known Harvey!! God bless!

Linda Seigler Oct 17, 2024

Co- Worker at Southwestern Bell ,Kansas City ,Missouri

I worked with Harvey at Southwestern Bell for years. In fact, started out together at 5960 Dearborn, Mission, KS. Harvey was a very thoughtful person & Great to work with. Keeping his family in my thoughts & prayers. God Bless

Dave Holtwick Oct 18, 2024

Co-worker ,Wellsville ,Kansas

I am very sorry to hear of Harvey's passing. Harvey was my first Supervisor when I joined Southwestern Bell in 1976 straight out of college. He was incredibly patient and kind...a wonderful mentor and friend...helping me learn the ropes in the Plant Department in the Dupont Test Center. I have so many wonderful memories of working for Harvey. Praying for comfort and peace to you all as you mourn this great man.

Services

Event:
Visitation
Location:
Holy Cross Catholic Church
Address:
9311 West 93rd Street
City:
Overland Park
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66213
Date:
Oct 16, 2024
Time:
9:30 AM
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Event:
Funeral Mass
Location:
Holy Cross Catholic Church
Address:
9311 West 93rd Street
City:
Overland Park
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66213
Date:
Oct 16, 2024
Time:
11:00 AM
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