Jan 24, 1997---Aug 15, 2023

Mary Elizabeth Cooley, 26 unexpectedly departed her earthly life for the kingdom of Heaven on August 15, 2023.

Mary was a daughter, sister, granddaughter, cousin, and friend to many. She attended and graduated from Mill Valley High School in 2015. She attended Paul Mitchell Cosmetology School and then lived all over the US.   Mary was a lover of all music, was self-taught on guitar and piano. She really shined when she was able to sing, for herself and for others whether it was in the High School choir, open mic nights or at festivals. She did not know a stranger and was an adventurous free spirit who saw the good in others. She had a wicked sense of humor, with an amazing infectious laugh, and loved making others laugh around her. She was enchanted by children and loved to care for them as well as her senior family members. She gave of herself on a mission trip to South Africa to care for those with HIV/AIDS.

Mary is survived by her mother, Shari Cooley, father, Tim Cooley and brother Jack Cooley, Grandmother, Anne Lopiano, Aunt’s and Uncles; Mark Smith and Jackie, Jack Morgan and Sherry,  Amy & Charlie Wunsch, Terri Cole, cousins; Ben, Evan, Shelby, Dalton, Ed, Lauren, Lexie,  Kayla and many, many friends all over the US. 

A Celebration of Mary’s life will take place on September 9, from 2-3 p.m.at Community Covenant Church 15700 W. 87th Parkway Lenexa, KS.   Please join our family as we remember her life and send her home to be with God. 

Memorials will be used to set up a scholarship fund at Mill Valley HS for senior students pursuing music in college.

We ask that if you have stories/photos to share of your time with Maer to send them to sharicooley63@gmail.com for inclusion in the service.  



Condolences

Karen Widdis Aug 19, 2023

Friend ,Kearney ,Missouri

I am so sorry, Shari! My heart is breaking for you. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Love you.

jill lee Aug 19, 2023

Shari I am so very sorry. I'm always here for you. Much love, Jill

Marie Parsons Aug 19, 2023

Shari, I am so sorry for your unimaginable loss. Your Mary sounds like an amazing person. Thoughts and prayers for you and the rest of Mary’s family and friends.

Cathy Burke Aug 19, 2023

Friend of Shari

Shari my heart aches for your pain. I pray God can bring you comfort in time. Until then I pray Gods arms wrap around you and Jack to keep you whole. I love you and I know how much you loved Mary.

Ashlee Teater Aug 19, 2023

Friend of Shari

My deepest sympathies and condolences. Thinking of you, Shari.

Ronald Sloan Aug 19, 2023

Cousin ,Elk city, ,Oklahoma

Tim we were so sorry to hear that Mary has passed. We will keep your family in our prayers for Gods peace and comfort to be yours at this difficult time.

MarShell Coupe Aug 19, 2023

Friend ,Falls City ,Nebraska

Shari, Our deepest condolences to you and your family! We are so sorry to hear this! Many prayers and blessings for you all! MarShell & Stan Coupe

Mary Ann Riesco Aug 19, 2023

Friend of Shari

Dear Shari, Holding you close in my heart and prayer as you hold Mary in your heart.

Rachel Shaw Aug 19, 2023

Friend ,Stockton ,Missouri

Shari, Tim, and family, My heart hurts for you all. I will be praying for now. Also praying for the upcoming months and years. There will be hard moments. May God be with you through it all. Rachel

Tambra Wise Aug 19, 2023

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Shari and Family, I will always remember Mary as a beautiful, free spirit who loved to make people smile! She lived life the way she wanted and I hope for her it was the best life ever! My heart goes out to your family and please know you all are in my thoughts. Tambra

Jim & Sarah Smith Aug 19, 2023

friends ,FALLS CITY ,Nebraska

Our hearts and sympathy go out to Shari and family during this very sad time. So sorry to hear of Mary's passing. She had such a beautiful voice. You could tell she had a passion for singing.

Kaleb Ritter Aug 19, 2023

Close friend ,North Hollywood ,California

You had a powerful presence you captivated people and brought so much joy to peoples hearts with that light you shared . REST IN POWER QUEEN

Kelly Miller Aug 19, 2023

Friend ,Leawood ,Kansas

Shari, You have loved your children with all your heart. I am praying peace and comfort for you and your family. Deepest condolences ??

Barb Tyler Aug 19, 2023

friend ,Lincoln ,Nebraska

I was so sorry to read this! What a beautiful young lady.....prayers and good thoughts for you and the entire family!

Teresa Olberding Aug 19, 2023

Friend ,Falls city ,Nebraska

Shari, So sorry to hear of your loss. Cannot imagine how how difficult this is. Prayers and hugs for you and your family! ?? ?

Michelle Fulton Aug 19, 2023

Friend of Shari ,Independence ,Missouri

Shari, prayers up for comfort during this time. Love you and Jack.

Julie and Sandy Boatman Aug 19, 2023

Friends ,Falls City ,Nebraska

Shari, Jack, Tim and family, we are so very sorry about Mary's passing. May you rest a little easier knowing that she is safe and taken care of now and always. ???? ??

Anne Marie Klimt Aug 19, 2023

Friend of father ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Oh honey - am stunned, saddened and my heart hurts for you. Anne Marie

Pamela Miller Singleton Aug 19, 2023

Shari I’m so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Tracy Jackman Aug 19, 2023

We are so sorry to hear about Mary. You all are in our thoughts and prayers - The Jackman Family

Ann Johnson Aug 19, 2023

Friend of Shari ,Shelbyville ,Tennessee

Oh Shari I am so sorry and I am praying for God’s tenderness as you grieve. May he gently heal your broken heart. Love and hugs for you ??

Robyn & John Hayes Aug 20, 2023

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

I’m so very sorry to hear about Mary’s passing. Mary spent a lot of time with Corrina and at our house when they were younger and I know her friendship was very special to Corrina. May your family find strength to navigate through such an immense loss. May she RIP and may you all find comfort in your happy memories. Much love from our family to yours. ??

Kelli Zinno Aug 20, 2023

Friend ,Louisville ,Kentucky

Sherri. My heart is breaking for you. I remember those blond curls and sassy attitude. A light has gone out. May your baby rest in peace. Don and I are thinking about you and your family and praying for comfort Kelli

Julie Martin Aug 20, 2023

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Shari, Tim and Jack my sincere condolences to your family. Your daughter/sister sounds like a shining star with many talents and an adventurous spirit. My heart is heavy as I think of your family going through this difficult time. I will keep your daughter and you in my prayers.

Ann Lintecum Aug 20, 2023

Friend ,Prairie Village ,Kansas

Tim, Shari, Jack - this is heartbreaking news. Condolences to you all.

Amy Albright Aug 20, 2023

Tim, I am so sorry. I'm thinking of you and your sweet, beautiful girl and sending all my love.

Robyn Self Aug 20, 2023

YL leader ,Basehor ,Kansas

My heart hurts. Mary and I exchanged messages back and forth on Facebook in 2019. I encouraging her as she was sharing how YL provided some of her best memories in high school & she wanted to reconnect. I’ll always have fond memories of her. I’ll be praying for you all! I’m so sorry. Sending love.

Nita Aug 20, 2023

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you can find peace and comfort in knowing you have the chance to see Mary again. The Bible promises, "there is going to be a resurrection". (Acts 24:15) What a wonderful time this will be!

Angelique Wong Rivas Perez & Maria Garcia Aug 23, 2023

Friend of Shari ,Los Angeles ,California

Dear Shari and family, We are praying for You all. Our hearts are with you Love Angelique and Maria Holland and LA ??????????????????????

Robin Delury Aug 23, 2023

Friend ,Des Moines ,Iowa

I am so very, very sorry, Shari.

Marie Blessington Aug 28, 2023

Friend of Shari ,Millsboro ,Delaware

Dear Shari, there are simply no words... I cannot even imagine losing a child. I am thinking of you every single day and sending prayers your way every single day. I Love you an I am also grieving for Jack met him once what a great kid...now young man. I hope you can feel the love surrounding you and know that You have an Angel in heaven who is leading the chorus with her beautiful soulful voice. Rest in Peace Mary, you were Loved and you will be missed.

Julie LaRose Aug 29, 2023

Former co-worker ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Shari, my deepest sympathies for you and your family. My son also attends Mill Valley and studies music. I am thinking of Mary and her joyous legacy there. Wishing you peace.

Sonya Bradford Trenary Sep 05, 2023

Friend ,Lowell ,Arkansas

Dearest Shari—- my heart breaks for you as you try to find Gods peace as you navigate through this difficult journey. Sending lots of love and prayers for your family and in the days to come.

Rebecca Zickerman Sep 08, 2023

Friend ,Charlotte ,North Carolina

We are so sad to hear about Mary’s passing. She was such a wonderful, beautiful, spunky little girl. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family today and always.

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Services

Event:
Memorial Service
Location:
Community Covenant Church
Address:
15700 West 87th Street
City:
Lenexa
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66219
Date:
Sep 09, 2023
Time:
2:00 PM
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