Deborah Kay Selby, Age: 50
Send Flowers
Oct 30, 1972---Jun 17, 2023

Deborah Kay Selby passed away on June 17th, 2023.  Deborah was born in Omaha, Nebraska in 1972 to Charles and Kaye Henry. Deborah gave the gift of life through organ and tissue donation.

 

Deborah earned multiple Associates degrees from the Community College of the Air Force which include Telecommunications Management, Aerospace History and Paralegal.  She earned a Bachelor of Science in Journalism, Business Communications and a Bachelor of Arts in English from the University of Kansas.  She completed her education by earning a Master’s Degree in Business Administration from Baker University.

 

Deborah was a Kansas Air National Guard veteran joining the 190th Air Refueling Wing in 1992 at Forbes Field Air National Guard Base, Topeka, Kansas. Deborah was assigned to the 190th for her entire military career of over 22 years ending as the Law Office Superintendent and Paralegal.

 

While in the military she loved her civilian career as a paralegal.

 

Deborah and Chris Selby met at work in 1999. They became best friends dating for 7 years then married on the beaches of Jamaica over 13 years ago.

 

Deborah’s greatest enjoyment in life was traveling with Chris to Universal Studios Orlando, anniversary trips to Jamaica, jigsaw puzzles and caring for her precious donkey.

 

Her loving husband and best friend Chris Selby, her parents, Kaye and Charles Henry, sister Brenda Henry and many other relatives and friends will miss this very special woman.

 

Her final resting place will be in the Leavenworth National Cemetery, Leavenworth, KS.  A celebration of life is scheduled to take place from 1pm to 4pm on Saturday, July 1st, 2023 at the Museum of the Kansas National Guard, 125 Southeast Airport Drive, Topeka, KS 66619.

 

In lieu of flowers the family suggests memorial contributions to the family to help off set medical costs or to a charity of their choosing.


Condolences

Jean Jun 24, 2023

Friend ,Bonner Springs ,Kansas

I am so sorry to hear of Debbie’s passing. She was always such a genuine caring person and I held her in highest esteem when we worked together. I’m so glad that Chris and her ended up sharing their lives together. My prayers and love go out to the family. Rest in peace friend.

Jane Hazelwonder Jun 25, 2023

Friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Sara Jun 25, 2023

Debbie and I worked together early in our careers and enjoyed going out for a drink or dinner after work with co-workers. I really enjoyed Debbie's sweet demeanor and dry sense of humor. I am truly saddened about her passing so young and wish her family peace as they navigate this difficult time.

Carla Craig-Koch Jun 25, 2023

I'm so sorry for your loss. Debbie and I knew each other from paralegal school and kept in touch after. She was a very sweet woman.

Paul Wirtz Jun 26, 2023

Co-worker ,Topeka ,Kansas

Kay, Charlie, Brenda. and Chris. My heart goes out to you all. Debbie was a wonderful woman. I had the privilege of associating with her when we worked in the 190th HQ bldg. She was always a pleasant, polished professional in every thing she did. From Highland Park South with.my two Chris and Robin, to family support functions and to be co-workers together Debbie was a person you wanted to greet and share with. I am so sorry for your loss

Tony Ali Jun 26, 2023

Friend ,Leawood ,Kansas

Chris - I'm sorry to hear about the passing of Deborah. My deepest sympathies go out to you and her family during this difficult time. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers, and we are here for you if there's anything you need. - Tony

Tammy Davidson Jun 27, 2023

School friend ,Kansas City ,Kansas

I'm so sorry for your loss, she sounded like an awesome lady. You & Your Family are in my thoughts & Prayers.

Candy Futrell Jul 01, 2023

School friend ,Harrison ,Arkansas

I'm so sorry for your loss. Some of my best memories from grade school involve Debbie.