Jul 22, 1939---Nov 02, 2026

Paul E. Palmer, 87, of Kansas City, KS, passed away Monday, November 2, 2026 at his home surrounded by his loving family. The visitation will be from 10-11 a.m. with the Memorial Service at 11:00 a.m. on Friday, November 13, at the Porter Funeral Home,  8535 Monrovia, Lenexa, KS.  A Celebration of Paul's life will immediately follow the service at Sunflower Hills Golf Course, 12200 Riverview Ave, Bonner Springs, KS. 

Paul was born July 22, 1939, in Great Bend, KS, the son of Harold "Hal" and Edith (Hunsley) Palmer. Paul attended Hays High School and was a member of the football, basketball and golf teams and was also a member of the band.  He then went on to Fort Hays State University on scholarship for both basketball and golf.  He received both his bachelor’s and Masters degrees in Education from Ft. Hays. He met Sue Chowning in 1964 and they were later married on August 2nd, 1965.  They raised 3 beautiful children, Amy, Megan and Jeff in Kansas City, where they have lived since they were married.  PEP was a teacher and coach at various KCK schools before becoming the Principal at Rosedale Middle and finally at F.L. Schlagle High school.  Following his positions in USD 500, he went on to work for both the National Federation and Kansas State High School Activities Association  where he retired in 2004.  After his retirement, he did what he loved most which was played golf every chance he could get if he wasn’t attending one of his grandchildrens many events. Paul is preceded in death by his parents, his sister Polly, brothers Don and Doug, and Megan's husband Bruce Hash. He is survived by his wife of 61 years, Sue, 3 children and their spouses, Amy and Kevin Duff, Megan Palmer, Jeff and Brenna Palmer, his grandchildren Kate and Jake Duff, Tristan Hash, Quentin, Jarrett, and Preston Palmer and his brother Lon. 



Condolences

melissa wayne Nov 02, 2026

Paul had a big impact on many young lives as an educator, and on my family… as my mother’s principal and friend, and at the golf course where he, Charlie, Bill , and my dad George forged lifelong bonds. To Sue and your family, thank you for sharing Paul with so many of us . Thinking of you all and sending much love, Melissa Wayne

Vern Lynn Nov 03, 2026

former student

Excellent kind, friendly, caring educator.

Doug Spangler Nov 03, 2026

Friend ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Palmer Family, God Bless your Mother and Father. They were the best public servants during our time together in Wyandotte County. Together your Parents mentored so many kids growing up in the Dotte. USD 500 was their interest in growing the Dotte in a positive manner. Always encouraging and serving others. Peace be with you now and in the days ahead. Doug Spangler

Adrea Hobson Nov 03, 2026

His Favorite Student at Schlagle ,Kansas City ,Kansas

What a surprise to hear of Mr. Palmers passing. There are some people who have lived their lives with such integrity and grace it is hard to imagine life without them. He was always a scholar, gentleman and a role model. To Megan and Amy thank you for your selfless acts and sharing your dad with us throughout the years. To Mrs. Palmer your strength has never gone unnoticed. You have been such a sweet fragrance. Always a great example of what marriage and motherhood should look like. May God bless each of you and continue to make his face shine upon you.

David Mikesic Nov 03, 2026

Former teacher ,Kansas city ,Kansas

Paul gave me great guidance when I was a first year teacher at Wyandotte High School. He was fair but firm teacher, and great mentor back in 1967/68. God Bless Paul and his family.

Anthony Lewis Nov 03, 2026

Former student ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Sorry for your loss. Mr Palmer was a great principal and a great person. Condolences

Elizabeth Johnson Peresic Nov 03, 2026

I had the great pleasure of having Mr. Palmer as my high school principal at Schlagle. He was a wonderful man. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace PEP

Georgia and Kerry Hiwlett Nov 03, 2026

Student ,Kansas City ,Kentucky

Sue Paul meant the world to us. He was always so friendly and kind and always so proud of Ben our principal and we too proud that he was our principal. I am so sorry for your loss, but I am glad that he's not suffering Right now, I have surgery scheduled for that day, but if something can be worked out, I will be there Your family is in our hearts and prayers

Julie Meek Nov 03, 2026

Co-workers ,Topeka ,Kansas

Paul and I worked together at the KSHSAA for many years. Paul was a wonderful person! Sue and family, I am so sorry for the loss. Prayers and hugs to you and family.

Jane Grosdidier Regan Nov 04, 2026

Friend ,Lenexa ,Kansas

Sue and family, I am so sorry for your loss. May your beautiful memories of your husband, father and grandfather bring you comfort and lasting joy in the days ahead. Mr. Palmer was truly the gold standard in school administrators. I am forever grateful that my teaching career of almost 40 years began under his leadership and guidance. During those years I fondly remembered or referenced a PEPism from time to time (and I’m sure I’m not the only one to do so.) Continued thoughts and prayers for your family at this difficult time.

Sally Bukaty , John Bukaty Nov 04, 2026

Friend ,Mission ,Kansas

So sorry for your loss. Paul was a wonderful educator and a fine gentleman. Our deepest sympathiy

Shannon Rhodes DiMaggio Nov 07, 2026

Friend ,Kansas City

Amy & Megan, I’m so very sorry to hear about your dad. He was such a great man. My thoughts & prayers are with all of you.

Fred Wilson Nov 07, 2026

Friend ,Kansas city ,Kansas

Paul was a great person father, friend and grandparent. We’re so sorry for loss.

Bruce and Marilyn Schlosser Nov 07, 2026

Friends ,Lenexa ,Kansas

Sue, Thinking of you and your family on Paul's passing. It sounds like he was loved and admired as a teacher and principal in the Kansas City, Kansas schools. Our condolences on your loss. Bruce and Marilyn Schlosser

Tom and Beth Tirner Nov 07, 2026

Friend ,Lees Summit ,Missouri

Amy, We are so sorry to hear this sad news. You were Blessed with one of the best. Keeping you and you family in our prayers

Stan Herbic Nov 08, 2026

Friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Paul was a gentleman who made this world a better place. He was an exceptional administrator who treated everyone with respect. His bright star will be missed. Deepest sympathy.

Ray and Joan Daniels Nov 08, 2026

Friends and co-workers ,Lenexa ,Kansas

I have many wonderful memories of Paul during his years with the KCK School District and the Kansas State Activities Association. Paul was a tireless supporter of students and cared deeply about their present and future. Please accept our condolences for your loss.

Virgie Bancroft Nov 08, 2026

High school 2 years ahead ,Hays, Kansas City ,Missouri

I knew Paul in Hays high school. Also knew his sister and the father was ethe Band director. I was a claironet player many years ago; Liked all his family that I knew and now have to say I've outlived another person., which is sad for me as I seem headed to be the last as I am 99. Sorry he is gone. Wish we could have touched base before he passed. Virgie

Mike Burns Nov 08, 2026

Friend ,Panama City Beach ,Florida

Sue I’m sorry to hear about Paul. You are both great people. I loved our days when you were brave enough to go to Royals games with me and Rick and the gang. I miss you answering the phone at Porters . Love you Sue baby!

Joan DeGraw Jones Nov 08, 2026

Student of Mr. Palmer ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Mr. Palmer was one of my favorite teachers at Wyandotte High School. I was thrilled when he and his wife attended our Class of "68" 50th reunion. We sincerely enjoyed visiting with him. My sincere condolences to his wife and family. Rest in peace Mr. Palmer. Joanie DeGraw Jones

Services

Event:
Visitation
Location:
Porter Funeral Home
Address:
8535 Monrovia St.
City:
Lenexa
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66215
Date:
Nov 13, 2026
Time:
10:00 AM
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Event:
Memorial Service
Location:
Porter Funeral Home
Address:
8535 Monrovia St.
City:
Lenexa
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66215
Date:
Nov 13, 2026
Time:
11:00 AM
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Event:
Celebration of Life
Location:
Sunflower Hills Golf Course
Address:
12200 Riverview Ave
City:
Bonner Springs
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66012
Date:
Nov 13, 2026
Time:
12:00 PM
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