Dec 05, 1957---Feb 21, 2026

 Monet Luree Kietzman of Lenexa passed away on Saturday, February 21, 2026 at her home. She was 68 years old. 

   Monet was born on December 5, 1957 in Sapulpa, Oklahoma to Albert and Nancy Bellinger (Black). She attended Kansas State University where she earned her bachelor’s degree in social work in 1980. She spent most of her career as an underwriter and retired from Sunlife Financial in 2025.

   She was the proud mother of two sons that she loved unconditionally. From ear aches to baseball practice and snuggles to scouts, Monet showed up for her sons no matter what. They took many family road trips, and she supported them in pursuing their multiple individual interests. When those sons grew up and got married, she embraced her daughters-in-law with equal devotion. 

   Monet was an avid genealogist and a leader in multiple historical groups. She loved to read and learn and enjoy a good TV series - even more so if those activities were historically based. A rebel at heart, she loved rock music and concerts. She also enjoyed traveling, giving presents, and a fountain Diet Coke. Monet was a devoted Catholic who spent her last few years with St. Joseph parish. She demonstrated her commitment to her faith through Bible and catechism studies, midnight adoration slots, and attending All School Mass with her grandchildren. In her retirement, she was looking forward to being able to increase this involvement.

   Monet truly came into her own when she became a grandmother. Her life centered around her grandchildren, Ezri and Louis, who called her Gigi. She took them to school and activities, hosted many a sleepover, and spoiled with the best of them. Monet’s family was the most important thing to her, and she would do anything for them. They are all incredibly fortunate to be recipients of such love and dedication.

   Monet is survived by her sons Ian (Brianna) Kietzman of Kansas City and Dane (Frankie) Kietzman of Shawnee, their father, Randy Kietzman, and her grandchildren. She is preceded in death by her parents, her brother Steve Bellinger and her lifelong friend, Cindy Trupka. 

   The visitation will be Monday, March 2 from 10-11am followed by Funeral Mass at 11am at St. Joseph Catholic Church, 11311 Johnson Drive, Shawnee, KS. Memorial contributions in Monet's name are welcome to the St. Joseph Generations Campaign or the Gift of Adoption Fund

 



Condolences

Eve Davenport Holder Feb 22, 2026

UDC DAUGHTER ,Gallatin ,Tennessee

The GA Division UDC is very sad to hear of your passing. We will keep your family and friends in our prayers. Eve Davenport Holder Chaplain GA Division UDC

Linda Curtiss Feb 22, 2026

friend ,Auburn ,Kansas

Monet, "Gone from our sight, but never from our hearts."

Richard McPherson Feb 22, 2026

Friend ,Leawood ,Kansas

Monet has been a special friend to me and to those in my Southern Heritage group for many years. Her spirit and enthusiasm was so uplifting and made it a joy to have her join with us. We thought of her as a sister and in return we were her brothers. We are saddened to learn of her passing and she will be missed. Our condolences to her boys and to her grandchildren who she loved so much.

Stella Lee Feb 22, 2026

Friend ,Las Vegas ,Nevada

Ms. Monet, You are so loved and cherished. I am very disheartened to hear of your passing. I am praying for your friends and family at this difficult time. Our chapter won't feel the same without you in it. Your enthusiasm for history and our shared heritage helped make meetings so special. We love you ❤️ Stella Lee

Jodi Izzo Feb 22, 2026

Friend ,Las Vegas ,Nevada

I am at such a loss, you were such an incredible friend, Monet. You always showed up and made yourself available for those you loved. I know how much retirement meant to you to spend more time with your kids and grandkids, I am heartbroken for all of them as well. You loved out loud, and had passion in everything you did. You will be forever loved and missed. 💔🙏

Stella Lee Feb 22, 2026

Friend ,Las Vegas ,Nevada

Ms. Monet, You are so deeply loved and missed. I am sending prayers of comfort and healing for your family at this difficult time. ❤️ Stella Lee

Renee Sullivan Feb 22, 2026

Friend ,Macon ,Georgia

To Monet's family, I am so shocked to hear about Monet's passing. I connected with her at a UDC General Convention and then found out she knew one of my cousins who lives in KS. We bonded over that and it was always a pleasure to see her at conventions. Prayers for all you!!! She will be so missed!! Renee Sullivan, Ph.D. Sidney Lanier 25 UDC Macon, GA

Crystal Stallings Jump Feb 22, 2026

friend ,Macon ,Georgia

I am so sorry to hear of this! Just as life was starting Monet! Rest easy friend!

Charlotte Clinger Feb 22, 2026

Friend ,Fairfax ,Virginia

My deepest sympathy goes out to Monet’s family. She was such a joy to be around, especially at UDC Conventions, always fun and gracious.

Tracey Smith Feb 23, 2026

Work Friend ,Raymore ,Missouri

Monet, I can't believe this. You just retired to be able to enjoy the grandbabies and your sons and their wives. I am in shock and saddened. Thoughts and Prayers to your family and friends. You will be so missed. Tracey Smith

Diane DeWitt Feb 23, 2026

Former Co-Worker ,Independence ,Missouri

I have worked with Monet for many years at MBL/Assurant/SunLife. We worked together for many years and became friends and were planning to get together for lunch end of March after my vacation. She will be missed, always enjoyed visiting with her in and out of the office. I know how much she loved her sons and daughter in laws and those grandkids. She was very proud grandmother. Diane

Sandra A Bryson Feb 23, 2026

Friend ,Turney ,Missouri

I wish I had the right words. I am holding you all close in my thoughts and in my prayers as you navigate this painful time. Your mom’s presence will always be felt, and her love will continue to surround every one of you. She loved you all so dearly. Monet carried such a strong, vibrant zest for life, and her laugh was truly contagious. I will deeply miss my dear friend. Please know and trust our Lord is near to the brokenhearted and will carry you through the days ahead.

Kim Oliver Feb 23, 2026

work colleague ,Raymore ,Missouri

My deepest sympathies to Monet's family. She was so excited to retire and spend so much more time with her boys and grandkids. My thoughts are with you all and prayers for strength as you go through this hardship. She was a terrific and blessed woman.

Kathy Harrell Feb 23, 2026

work friend ,Blue Springs ,Missouri

I am at such a loss, you were such a kind person and good friend, Monet. During our many conversations at work planning your retirement celebration you expressed how you were looking forward to spending more time with your family. It was so obvious how much you loved being a grandmother. I am so sorry you were taken from us so early. I am heartbroken for all your family. You will be forever missed.

Sandi Blood Feb 23, 2026

Friend ,Murrells Inlet ,South Carolina

I was so shocked to read this news. I had communicated with Monet just a couple of months ago and we were planning to get together in South Carolina this spring. So sad that she did not have the chance to fully embrace retirement and spend more time with her family. Sending lots of love and strength to her family.

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Services

Event:
Visitation
Location:
St. Joseph Catholic Church
Address:
11311 Johnson Drive
City:
Shawnee
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66203
Date:
Mar 02, 2026
Time:
10:00 AM
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Event:
Funeral Mass
Location:
St. Joseph Catholic Church
Address:
11311 Johnson Drive
City:
Shawnee
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66203
Date:
Mar 02, 2026
Time:
11:00 AM
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