Jan 09, 1948---Nov 09, 2024

Michael A. Rhoades passed away peacefully at home surrounded by family after a long battle with Parkinson’s disease on November 9, 2024, at the age of 76. Mike “Dusty” was a devoted husband, father, grandfather “Coach”, brother, and friend. He was preceded in death by his parents, Joe and Millie Rhoades, and his beloved son, Richard “R.J.” Rhoades.

Mike leaves behind his loving wife of 55 years, Michele; his daughter Jennifer Walters (Steve); son Michael Rhoades (Tiffany); and his cherished grandchildren, Dylan (Rachel), Trevor, and Aidan Walters, Quintan and Finley Rhoades, his sister, Patty Draskovich (Joe), along with many in-laws, nieces, nephews, and countless friends whose lives he touched deeply.

Mike was born on January 9, 1948, in Osceola, MO, and then became a lifelong Kansas City resident. He attended St. Ann Catholic School and later graduated from Bishop Miege High School class of 1966. He was proud to be an Evans Scholar at the University of Missouri-Columbia class of 1970. Mike served in the Army National Guard from 1970 to 1976.

In his professional life, Mike was a successful business owner, co-owning Missouri Conrad Liquor Company and Hightech Signs with his business partner, Dick Robinson. His leadership, work ethic, and ability to build lasting relationships were hallmarks of his career.

Mike’s true passion lay in his deep love of sports, especially golf. He shared his expertise and enthusiasm by coaching youth teams in a variety of sports, including women's golf at the University of Missouri-Kansas City (UMKC), and boys' and girls' golf at Bishop Miege. Mike also served as the golf director for the Greater Kansas City YMCA, where he inspired countless young athletes. His passion for the game was not just limited to coaching-he was a skilled player, with three hole-in-ones to his name. A past president of Blue Hills Country Club, he was also a Club and Senior Club Champion, and his love of the game was only surpassed by his love of sharing it with others and winning bets.

Mike’s passion for sports didn’t end on the golf course. He also served as an announcer for men’s basketball at UMKC, and for basketball and football at Bishop Miege. He was a devoted coach and spectator to his own children and grandchildren, sharing his knowledge and love with them through countless hours of practice and encouragement.

Mike was a member of St. Thomas More Catholic Parish, where he lived his faith with love, generosity, and kindness.

Rosary at 5 p.m. followed by a Visitation from 5:15 to 7:00 p.m. on Tuesday, November 12, 2024, at St. Thomas More Catholic Church, 11822 Holmes Road, Kansas City, MO 64145. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Wednesday, November 13, 2024, at 10 a.m. at St. Thomas More Catholic Church, with burial to follow at Resurrection Catholic Cemetery, 8300 Quivira Road, Lenexa, KS 66215.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations in Mike’s memory to Bishop Miege High School

 

 or the Evans Scholars Foundation, organizations that were dear to his heart.

Mike’s family and friends will remember him for his unwavering love, dedication, and generosity. His legacy will live on through the countless lives he impacted, and his memory will continue to be a source of strength and inspiration for all who knew him. May he rest in peace.



Condolences

Nov 10, 2024

Gail Fredlund Chavez ,Sterrett (Birmingham) ,AL

I knew Mike since childhood. He babysat my brother, John, and I when we weré kids. We loved how he would rough-house with us! I also remember attending Mike & Michelle's wedding. Michelle was such a beautiful bride! My prayers are with your entire family. May your wonderful memories sustain you at this difficult time.

Bernie Bianchino Nov 11, 2024

Classmate ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Mike was the consummate classmate at Miege. Everyone’s friend. I can’t remember a time without Mike and Michelle together. It’s difficult to imagine otherwise. My condolences to Michele and to their entire family. You should be very proud of his accomplishments and those whose lives he touched, I’m sure, are very thankful. My prayers are with you all.

Nancy Rundell Lauterbach Nov 11, 2024

Neighbor during our childhood on 73rd Terrace ,Scottsdale ,Arizona

Michelle, Patty, and the entire family, please know that my love and prayers are with you. I have fond memories of growing up with the Rhodes family! Nancy Rundell Lauterbach

Rob Gleissner Nov 11, 2024

Friend/classmate ,Olathe ,Kansas

Michele; Sorry for your loss. Mike and I were team mates in golf, football and bball. When I headed west to kstate Mike went to MU along w bro Tom(Plant). They became very close as Evans Scholars and continued the “Gleissner” relationship until today. Dusty had a great sense of humor and a solid citizen.

Jenny Nyman Nov 11, 2024

Friend of Erika Draskovich ,Overland Park

So sorry for your loss. Sending love and prayers to you all.

Dave and IC Johnston Nov 12, 2024

Friends ,Dallas ,Texas

We’ve been friends with Mike for over 50 years. We met when we opened the Evan’s Scholar Chapter at Mizzou. Mike was the first ever Pledge Trainer there and did an outstanding job. We had great times there and the friendship with him and Michele has continued ever since. We remember especially the times at Missouri football games. Always had a great time tailgating in Columbia and our foursome brought home some big Tiger victories on the road…Lawrence, Waco, College Station, Nashville, Stillwater (OK, that one was a loss), Knoxville, and every one of those five straight victories over Illinois in St. Louis. We’ll miss him.

Cynergy Wellness Inc Nov 12, 2024

Friends of the Family ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Our deepest sympathy for the loss of your father. We know how special he was by how special you are. We hold you and your family in our prayers. With Love, Cynergy Wellness, Inc.

Tom Gleissner Nov 15, 2024

Old friend ,Leawood ,Kansas

Michelle as you know I’ve known Mike since St. Ann’s, Miege,MU and the rest oh his life. You have been his best friend that whole time and I never thought about him without you. Kay and I will never forget all the crazy good times we shared. I’m sorry he’s gone, but I’m sure he is keeping an I on us. RIP

Lynn Ward Nov 15, 2024

Friend of Mr.Rhoades' daughter ,Philadelphia ,Pennsylvania

I did not know Mr. Rhoades personally but he must have been an amazing man because his daughter is one of the nicest people I ever worked with. Jen loved her Dad so much but that is a true testament of how she was raised. Jen I am so very sorry for the loss of your Father. Mom will need you to get through this tough time. If you need anything at all I am here for you. I love ya and I will continue to pray for you and your whole family through this time in your life.

Services

Event:
Rosary
Location:
St. Thomas More Catholic Church
Address:
11822 Holmes Road
City:
Kansas City
State:
Missouri
Zip Code:
64145
Date:
Nov 12, 2024
Time:
5:00 PM
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Event:
Visitation
Location:
St. Thomas More Catholic Church
Address:
11822 Holmes Road
City:
Kansas City
State:
Missouri
Zip Code:
64145
Date:
Nov 12, 2024
Time:
5:15 PM
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Event:
Funeral Mass
Location:
St. Thomas More Catholic Church
Address:
11822 Holmes Road
City:
Kansas City
State:
Missouri
Zip Code:
64145
Date:
Nov 13, 2024
Time:
10:00 AM
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