May 19, 1974---Mar 07, 2025

Matthew Jon Watkins, 50, of Merriam, Kansas, passed away on March 7th, 2025, at his home. He was born on May 19th, 1974, in Denison, Iowa to Myron Eugene Watkins, who preceded him in death, and Donna Jane Watkins of De Soto, Kansas.

Matthew graduated from Dowling Catholic High School in Des Moines, Iowa and later attended and received his undergraduate degree from the University of Iowa where he was a member of the Beta Theta Pi fraternity. He obtained his graduate degree from Creighton Law School in Omaha, Nebraska and completed his Doctorate.  Matthew remained a loyal fan to the Iowa Hawkeyes, with a collection of memorabilia and attending games regularly. Matthew’s current position resided with Forest T Jones as their Senior Compliance Counsel/AML Officer. 

Matthew was an avid sports fan, cheering passionately for the Kansas City Chiefs, Kansas City Royals, and Iowa Hawkeyes, never missing a chance to support his favorite teams. He also found joy on the golf course, in the pages of a good book, and through his love of music, which brought him comfort and connection throughout his life. Matthew founded The Annual Watty Open, the family golf tournament, in memory of his father in 2023. One of Matthew’s favorite pastimes was watching crime shows and documentaries.

Matthew was a kind and loving soul who cherished every moment spent with his family and friends. Whether sharing laughter with his children, making memories with his mother and siblings, or showing endless love and support to his nieces and nephews, he unfailingly put family first. He always loved entertaining and hosting family events, with Thanksgiving being his favorite. His warmth, generosity, and unwavering kindness touched everyone who knew him, leaving behind a legacy of love that will be cherished forever.

Matthew is survived by his two children, Aidan Matthew Watkins and Margaret Katherine Watkins, along with his mother Donna Jane Watkins, and four siblings: Jill Marie (Jack) Conard, Brenda Diane (Michael) Parezo, Patrick Myron (Pamela) Watkins, and Mary Beth (David) Thompson, in addition to several nieces and nephews.

Matthew’s time with us was far too short, but the love, laughter, and kindness he shared will live on in the hearts of those who knew him. He will be deeply missed by his family, friends, and all who were fortunate enough to be part of his life. We love you Matty.

A Visitation will be at 9:30 AM followed by a Funeral Mass at 10:30 AM, Thursday, March 13, 2025 at Holy Trinity Catholic Church, 13615 West 92nd Street, Lenexa, KS 66215.  Burial at Resurrection Cemetery.  



Condolences

Amy Moeller Mar 11, 2025

Cousin ,Sioux City ,Iowa

We love you Mathey! More than you will ever know …. Your Calvillo cousins Kim, Shelley, Patty, Amy & Mike

Annette Mar 11, 2025

Friend of Marybeth (sister) ,Graham ,Washington

My deepest condolences in this time of loss to you MaryBeth and your family. May the memories of your brother along with God’s love and peace comfort you and your family during this difficult time.

Greg & Jean Heilbronn Mar 12, 2025

Friends (through Christopher Heilbronn) ,Michigan

Our loving thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Matt will live on in our happy memories.

Anthony Farrell Mar 12, 2025

Friend ,Ankeny ,Iowa

So sorry to hear of Matt's passing. He was a loved and valued colleague at Nationwide. Will miss you.

Eric Boehlert Mar 12, 2025

Classmate ,Ankeny ,Iowa

I knew Matt at Dowling. He had a genius sense of humor, and an infectious laugh. I am so sorry to hear of his passing, far too soon. I have not met his family, but will pray for your consolation at this difficult time. Rest in Peace, Matt, Eric

Christine & Mark Hollister Mar 12, 2025

Donna, Brenda, Mike, Becky and Brandon- Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Hold on to the memories tight. Matt will always be with all of you. Know that the long days will eventually shorten and know that we are here for you whenever you need anything. A friend, and ear or just someone to be with you in silence. Sending hugs

Patrick Costigan Mar 12, 2025

Friend from school ,Denver ,Colorado

I loved Matt like a brother. Deepest condolences to his friends and family. Matt often spoke about how much love he had for his family. I will miss Matt dearly.

Michael and Sheilah Heilbronn Mar 13, 2025

Freinds ,Bradenton ,Florida

Praying for Matt’s family. He was a special friend of our family and created many memories for us RiP

Kathy Castle Mar 16, 2025

Friend ,Lincoln ,Nebraska

I'm so sorry to learn of Matt's passing. I went to school with Matt - Sacred Heart and then Dowling. He was always just a nice guy with a great sense of humor. Sending love to all his family and loved ones, and holding them in my prayers.

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Services

Event:
Funeral Mass
Location:
Holy Trinity Catholic Church
Address:
13615 West 92nd Street
City:
Lenexa
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66215
Date:
Mar 13, 2025
Time:
10:30 AM
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