Aug 01, 1974---Aug 28, 2024

Leigh Ann Zeller, age 50, Shawnee, KS, died on Wednesday, August 28, 2024 after a seven year struggle with metastatic breast cancer. Leigh Ann was born at St. Luke’s Hospital in Kansas City, the daughter of Mary Elaine (Sullivant) Zeller and Darrell Zeller. She grew up in Prairie Village, Kansas and attended Saint Ann’s School, Bishop Miege High School, and Saint Theresa’s High School. Leigh Ann was a gifted athlete and especially enjoyed tennis, playing this game she loved from childhood into her 40’s. At Bishop Miege, she was voted kindest and most caring classmate by her peers. Leigh Ann graduated from Rockhurst University and earned a Masters in Social Work from the University of Kansas. She then completed a postgraduate Clinical Social Work Fellowship at The Child Study Center at the Yale University School of Medicine. Leigh Ann had a deeply compassionate and loving heart, showing kindness to all whom she met. She was especially gifted in her work with children and families at the Britain Development Center at Shawnee Mission Medical Center, frequently going above and beyond on behalf of families to provide support, counseling, and care. Leigh Ann was deeply loved and appreciated by her colleagues at the Britain Development Center, all of whom were such a tremendous support to her over the last few years in her struggles with cancer. Leigh Ann had a beautiful voice and was a member of the Visitation Catholic Church choir. She found great joy in expressing her faith through song and in the camaraderie and fellowship that she found in the choir. Leigh Ann was a wonderful and loving aunt to her nephews, Paul and Michael, and to her cousin Shayla’s children, Sienna and Cole. She also cared deeply for all of the children with whom she worked at the Britain Development Center over the years. Leigh Ann had a wonderful sense of humor, always creating space for playfulness, goofiness, and joy–even when her own struggles were tremendous. In 2017, Leigh Ann was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer and fought this disease for seven years. Leigh Ann rarely complained about her own struggles and showed care and concern for friends and family who visited her–always curious about how others were doing and asking about their lives. Leigh Ann was a person of deep faith and lived out her faith in her care for others–especially those on the margins and those who struggled with physical and emotional pain. She felt others’ pain deeply, and her empathy for those who were suffering was truly remarkable. A dear friend who spent a lot of time with Leigh Ann during her last few years remarked that whenever she and other friends would visit Leigh Ann to offer support and care, they always felt that they left their visits with Leigh Ann feeling like they received so much more than they gave. Leigh Ann is survived by her mother, Mary Elaine (Sullivant) Zeller; her father, Darrell Zeller (Mary Fran Zeller); her brother, John Zeller (Mary “Missy” Holland); nephews, Paul and Michael Zeller; stepbrother, David Barmettler (Meldy Barmettler); niece, Hope Barmettler, and nephews, Adan and Byani. Leigh Ann also received tender care over her final years from her dear cousin, Shayla (Sullivant) Dehaemers (Matt Dehaemers), and her dear aunt, Sherry Sullivant. Leigh Ann was blessed with many wonderful friends, including those who were especially close to her and showed her wonderful support and love during her final years, including Shannon Condon, Julie Eastland, and Lori Moore. Leigh Ann’s family is deeply grateful for all of the amazing healthcare workers and staff who showed her wonderful care at the University of Kansas Medical Center, Kansas City Hospice House, Advance Healthcare of Overland Park, and Brookdale Rosehill.  Services will be held on Tuesday, September 3, 2024. Visitation hours will be from 9:30 AM – 11:00 AM at Visitation Church (5141 Main St., Kansas City, MO), followed by a Funeral Mass at 11 AM. There will be a luncheon to follow. Burial will be at 3:00 PM at Highland Cemetery at 5100 W. 65th St., Prairie Village, KS. Arrangements provided by Porter Funeral Home. In lieu of flowers, the family welcomes donations to The Britain Development Center, www.britaindevelopment.org

.



Condolences

Evan Cuthbert Aug 31, 2024

Friend of John ,Braintree ,Massachusetts

I only met Leigh Ann a couple of times – at Missy and John‘s wedding and Paul’s baptism. Yet, upon reading her remembrance, I feel as if, looking back now, I was in the presence of a saint. What a special person. In this way, I can imagine the loss that you are feeling in your life is immense and yet the experience of being blessed because you have been so close to Leigh Ann must also be immense. Please know that we are holding you in prayer and thoughts, asking God to give you peace and God’s mercy, a mercy that Leigh Ann shared with all of those who she cared for. Evan

Amy Richardson Sep 01, 2024

Classmate ,Tulsa ,Oklahoma

I am so sorry to hear of Leigh Ann’s passing. I remember her as a kind and generous person from our days as classmates at St Ann’s and Miege. My thought and prayers are with her family and friends.

Cathy Daly Sep 02, 2024

Friend of Darrell & Mary Fran ,Kansas City ,Missouri

My sincere condolences to Darrell & Mary Fran at this time of sadness and loss. From your SFX friend, Cathy Daly

DOLORES HIRT Sep 03, 2024

FRIEND-BABYSITTER ,SHAWNEE ,Kansas

LEIGH ANN YOU MADE EVERYONE SEE HOW MUCH STRENGTH ONE PERSON CAN HAVE. YOU CARRIED ON AND KEPT GOING WHEN OTHERS WOULD HAVE GIVEN UP. I WILL MISS YOU BUT ALWAYS REMEMBER HOW YOU GREW INTO SUCH A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN. BABYSITTING YOU AND YOUR BROTHER WAS A PRIVILGE I WILL NOT FORGET. GOD HAS A NEW SAINT IN HEAVEN.

Noreen Thompson Sep 03, 2024

friend of Leigh Ann’s parents ,Overland Park ,Kansas

I am so sorry for your loss of this exceptional daughter - I never met her but reading this beautifully written obit makes me feel like I know her. My prayers are with this lovely family as they celebrate her generous life. God bless you all, Noreen Thompson (SFX)

Mary Ann Admire Sep 03, 2024

Friend ,Olathe ,Kansas

Darrell, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May God bless and heal you during this difficult time.

Sean Kelley Sep 03, 2024

John and Zeller family I am deeply sorry to hear about the loss of Leigh Ann. I had the opportunity meet her years ago. She truly had one of kindest and empathetic hearts I ever knew! I as well, lost my mother to breast cancer in 2005. I know your pain. Leigh Ann, she left way too early in this life! Please take solace that she is in a better place now! Deepest sympathies! S.Kelley R.H.S 89

Anita Paredes Sep 03, 2024

Classmate ,Lenexa ,Kansas

I am so saddened by news of Leigh Ann. I met her in high school. She was a beautiful person and so kind. Shayla, you and your family are in my prayers.

Raj, Kara, and Shera Bhala Sep 27, 2024

Friend ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Dearest Leigh Ann and The Zeller Family: Leigh Ann, you were, and always will be, our first friend in Kansas City. In Spring/Summer 2014, when we moved from Lawrence, Kansas to Kansas City, Missouri, we met you that Spring at the All- Ivy League Picnic in Loose Park. You assured Shera, then 14 years old, that she would be welcome in Kansas City and would find a new group of friends at The Pembroke Hill School. And, so she did. You, the Yalie, helped show Shera the path to Dartmouth. You visited us for dinner in 2014-2015 in our rented apartment at Fountain View on the Plaza -- again, the first friend to do so -- and helped us transition to life in Kansas City. Thereafter, you came to all our Christmas Parties at our rented house in Coleman Highlands, and our home in Brookside. You shared with us your experiences as a fellow member of Visitation Parish and the Visitation Choir. Always you were kind, generous, sweet, and thoughtful -- and more, super-smart, and super-perceptive. Candidly, may all Catholics have such a high IQ and EQ as you! Truly Christ-like! Please forgive us for not being as unconditionally, selflessly, and reciprocally wonderful. Ah, well, at least, you have taught us to be better. We cried when we learned of your passing from this life (multiple times, to be honest), this illusory world. But -- firm in faith -- we knew you were going to our true Home. Always we remember you as courageous, with a smile, and absolute trust in God. Love, Raj Bhala, Kara Tan Bhala, and Shera Tan Bhala

Services

Event:
Visitation
Location:
Visitation Church
Address:
5141 Main Street
City:
Kansas City
State:
Missouri
Zip Code:
64112
Date:
Sep 03, 2024
Time:
9:30 AM
Google Map:
Event:
Funeral Mass
Location:
Visitation Church
Address:
5141 Main Street
City:
Kansas City
State:
Missouri
Zip Code:
64112
Date:
Sep 03, 2024
Time:
11:00 AM
Google Map: