Jul 12, 1996---Oct 22, 2025

Jacob Michael Kuckelman, 29, Olathe, KS passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, October 22, 2025, at his home as a result of complications of diabetes.  Jacob bravely battled Type 1 diabetes since his November 2013 diagnosis.

Mass of Christian burial will be at 10:00 am on Wednesday, October 29 at Church of the Ascension, 9510 W. 127th St., Overland Park, KS. The Funeral Mass for Jacob will be livestreamed and can be viewed at https://kcascension.org/communications/live/

Interment will follow in Resurrection Cemetery, Lenexa, KS.  The rosary will be prayed at 4:00 pm followed by visitation until 7:00 pm on Tuesday, October 28 at Church of the Ascension.  Memorial contributions are suggested to Breakthrough T1D, to be used in the research of treatments and a cure of Type 1 diabetes. Memorial donations can also be made to the Washburn University School of Law designated for the “Jacob Kuckelman Memorial Scholarship” 

Jacob was born July 12, 1996, in Merriam, KS, the son of Michael J. Kuckelman and Jo Ellen Kerby.  Jacob lived in Overland Park, KS until 2000 when he moved with his family to London, England.  In 2007, Jacob moved with his family to Olathe, KS.  After attending Kansas State University and Washburn University School of Law, Jacob returned to Olathe, KS in 2022.

Jacob attended St. Mary’s Catholic School and St. Anthony’s Catholic School in Hampstead, London, England.  After returning to the U.S. in 2007, he attended Ascension grade school in Overland Park, KS.  In 2015, Jacob graduated from Rockhurst High School.

After graduating high school, Jacob attended Kansas State University and graduated in 2019.  While at K-State, Jacob was a member of Sigma Chi fraternity where he served as President and made life-long friends.  Jacob was a member of the K-State Mock Trial team where he developed a love for the law.  

After graduating from K-State in 2019, Jacob took a gap year intending to spend the year traveling, but while in Singapore in 2020, Jacob was forced to return to the U.S. due to Covid travel restrictions.  After Covid cut his year of travel short, Jacob moved to his family’s farm in Atchison County, KS where he enjoyed the great outdoors and awaited the start of law school. 

Jacob pursued his love of the law when he enrolled in law school at Washburn School of Law, Topeka, KS.  Jacob earned his Juris Doctor degree, graduating from Washburn Law in 2023.  Five days prior to his death, Jacob was honored by the Washburn Law School along with his father, brother, uncle and cousin as the Legacy Family of the Year.  

After graduating law school, Jacob went to work as a prosecutor serving as an Assistant District Attorney at the Douglas County, Kansas District Attorney’s Office.  In 2024, Jacob joined the Kuckelman Torline Kirkland law firm where he practiced law until his death.  During his time at the KTK firm, Jacob and his Dad had the opportunity to appear together in court, which they both greatly enjoyed.  

Jacob was a friend to all he met.  He was a kindhearted gentleman with a great sense of humor. His witty text messages and his Snapchats were legendary.  Jacob will be sorely missed by all who knew him.

Survivors include his mother, Jo Ellen Kerby, Overland Park, KS, his father, Michael J. Kuckelman, Overland Park, KS, his grandmother, Virginia Kuckelman, Atchison, KS, a sister, Sara Kuckelman Mercurio, M.D. (Michael), Overland Park, KS, a brother, Matthew Kuckelman, Topeka, KS.  He is also survived by numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and his loyal canine companion, Sadie.

He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Marlin and Elta Kerby and Gerald Kuckelman and a cousin, Scott Barker.

 

 

 



Condolences

Tammy & Pete Pickman Oct 25, 2025

Cousins ,Hiawatha ,Kansas

Pete and I send our Condolences to your family in this hard time, so sorry for your loss! Pete & Tammy Pickman

Piers & Jean Banks Oct 25, 2025

Friend ,Bellevue ,Nebraska

So sorry for the loss of your son Jacob. Keeping you & family all in our prayers. šŸ™šŸ™

Diane Williams Oct 25, 2025

Friend of Jo ,Leawood ,Kansas

Jo, My heartfelt condolences to you and your entire family. I just heard about Jacob’s passing and am praying for the repose of his soul. My heart breaks for you and your family at such a great loss.

Anthony Hamersky Oct 25, 2025

Law School Friend ,Wichita ,Kansas

Hello, I am rather heartbroken to hear of Jacob’s passing. He was a good man, and a good friend. There were many conversations I had with him discussing history or making jokes. Many nights we did trivia together on Thursdays while in Topeka. Many fond memories. He will be missed.

Markus Ferres Oct 25, 2025

Best Friend in London, UK ,Berlin, Germany

Dear Kuckelman Family, I am so deeply saddened and hurt to hear about the sudden passing of Jacob. While many years back I do remember vividly laughing, exploring and enjoying London in our primary school days together; and of course the hours we spent hanging out after - of which there were very many. Even after all this time I always remember his kindness, humor and the close friendship we had. My thoughts are with you, dear Kuckelman family, and the loved ones during this difficult time. Rest in peace my friend, you will always be remembered.

Markus Ferres Oct 25, 2025

Best Friend in London, UK ,Berlin, Germany

Dear Kuckelman Family, I am so deeply saddened and hurt to hear about the sudden passing of Jacob. While many years back I do remember vividly laughing, exploring and enjoying London in our primary school days together; and of course the hours we spent hanging out after - of which there were very many. Even after all this time I always remember his kindness, humor and the close friendship we had. My thoughts are with you, dear Kuckelman family, and the loved ones during this difficult time. Rest in peace my friend, you will always be remembered.

Kay Hoflander Oct 25, 2025

Friend of family ,Higginsville ,Missouri

Sending our deepest sympathy and love, Kay Hoflander, an RNC friend from Missouri.

Jana Richards Oct 25, 2025

Friend ,Greenwood ,Missouri

My heart breaks for this wonderful family on this loss. Just know that many prayers and much love is sent your way as you process this loss.

Paula Carr Oct 25, 2025

GOP friend ,Larned ,Kansas

Mike, My heart breaks for you. May our Lord continue to mend your broken heart a bit more each & every day . Continuing prayers for you,Mike. Your God will carry you.

Nancy and Richard Vaughn Oct 25, 2025

Friend ,Lake Ozark ,Missouri

As a life long sorority sister and fraternity brother of Jacob's parents, it was a pleasure watching Jacob grow up into the fine young man he was. Jacob was mannerly, funny, and always had a kind word. We are saddened by his passing and will miss him, knowing he's in the healing arms of our Lord. Condolences to the entire family, friends, and community. Nancy and Richard

Joan Recalde Oct 25, 2025

Friend ,Olathe ,Kansas

These are the times we must Trust in God's plan. What a remarkable young man, who fulfilled so much with family, friends, work, travels and love of life. My prayers to all whom Jacob touched in the time he had here on earth. May God grant him eternal life, Amen!

Tracy, Micheal, Lauren and Forrest Mistler Oct 25, 2025

friends and old neighbors ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Dear Kuckleman Family, We are so heartbroken and shocked to hear of Jacob’s passing! Words cannot convey the sadness! Although we didn’t get to know Jacob for long he is a precious and loved young man with so much to give! May Jesus wrap his loving arms around all of you and give you strength love and comfort through family and friends! With Love and sympathy God Bless, The Mistler Family

Philippa Hobbs (Dunn) Oct 25, 2025

Year 2 Teacher at St Mary's School Hampstead ,London

I am so very sorry to hear of your heartbreaking loss. I remember Jacob fondly and his best buddy Mikey. The two of them were a constant source of fun and laughter. I was truly blessed to be Jacob's teacher at St.Mary's School, Hampstead. I am holding you all in my thoughts and prayers. With much love, Philippa xx (or as Jacon knew me, Miss Dunn)

Scot Ferrell Oct 25, 2025

Fraternity brother at Washburn ,Castro Valley ,California

Mike and Jo, I’m so sorry for the tragic death of your beloved son Jacob. I always enjoyed the stories told by Mike of Jacob’s association to WU law school, Mike’s law firm along with his many other accomplishments. What an exceptional life enjoyed by two loving parents. My heart and prayers go out to you both and the entire family for your loss. Scot Ferrell

Steve O'Hern Oct 25, 2025

Incredibly sad news. My prayers and thoughts are with Mike and Jo Ellen.

Sarah Kinast Oct 25, 2025

Cousin ,Haven ,Kansas

There's never the right words to say. Losing the ones you love can hurt so bad. May God and all your loved ones help you guys through this. And know you have my condolence and my heart does break for you.

Barbara Ley Toffler Oct 25, 2025

Friend ,Teaneck ,New Jersey

Mike, this is such sad news. My heart goes out to you and your family. May his memory be a blessing.

Frank Guido Oct 25, 2025

Friend ,Margate ,Florida

My prayers are with you and your entire family during this time of loss. May Jacob rest in the arm's of his Savior and the Lord continue to comfort each of you.

Kadi Willming Holmberg Oct 25, 2025

Family friend ,Lincoln ,Nebraska

Mike, Jo, Sara, Matthew and all who love Jacob. I struggle to find the words to express my heartbreak. I will forever hold in my heart all the memories of my time with your family. His life was too short, but I know filled with love from all of you. May you find some peace at times in your memories, and know so many are holding you in our prayers. With love, Kadi O’Grady

Christen Secrest Oct 25, 2025

Colleagues ,Kansas

My deepest condolences to Jacob’s family. I first met him when he joined our team as a legal intern. He was bright, kind, and wonderful to work with. His loss will be felt by all who knew him.

Linda Baker Oct 25, 2025

Friend of father ,Wichita ,Kansas

My sincere condolences in your very sad loss. May God be near to all who knew and loved him.

Trey and Deb Burton Oct 25, 2025

Our heartfelt sympathy to your entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Brock Murphy Oct 25, 2025

Fraternity member ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Jacob was a great guy. All my thoughts and prayers go out to the Kuckleman family. Very sad to hear of his passing. He will be missed a lot.

Sharon (Latimer) McKibben Oct 25, 2025

Friend and old neighbors ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Prayers for you and Jacob, now and always. God bless your family and Jacob’s circle of friends šŸ™

Susan Early Oct 25, 2025

Friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

So very sorry for your loss. Our deepest sympathies to all of you.

Mast Family Oct 25, 2025

Friends & former neighbors ,Olathe ,Kansas

It broke our hearts to hear of Jacob’s passing. We hope you can find peace and comfort through your faith, family, friends, & memories. You all will continue to be in our thoughts & prayers, The Mast Family

Michelle and Doris Asher Oct 25, 2025

Doris & Michelle Asher ,Boonville ,Missouri

Sending prayers šŸ™. Condolences Rest in piece.

ReNae (Ernzen) Crabtree Allen Oct 25, 2025

This is so very sad I pray your family will find solace in each other during this difficult time

Christi Bostwick Oct 25, 2025

Jo and Mike, I can not fathom or find words to soothe your loss. Jake will forever be in my thoughts while I work with kids, some with Type I diabetes, at Sanford Children’s Hospital. Love and God’s light be with you and your families in the darkness. Christi

Rett and Terry Rogers Oct 25, 2025

Mike, we are so saddened by this news. You and your family are in our prayers.

Geralynn Cada Oct 25, 2025

Friend of family ,Sunrise Beach ,Missouri

My heart is with you. Jacob led a great life because of you, Jo and Mike. Keep your eyes to the sky, where Jacob is looking upon you with angels wings.

Nicole Oct 26, 2025

While I didn’t know Jacob personally, I met his sister Sara during an ISLP trip to Australia in 2015. My sincerest condolences and prayers to the Kuckelman Family. I pray that God will be with the Kuckelman Family and give them comfort and strength during this very difficult time of mourning. Psalm 49:15 Psalm 147:3 Palm 34:18

Tammy Diaz Oct 26, 2025

Friend ,Furlong ,Pennsylvania

Dear Kuckelman family, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Jacob was such a nice kid back in the Flint Street days and appears to have grown to be an amazing young man. I hope you find comfort in family, friends and faith. Always hang on to the great memories Love, Tammy Diaz and family

Leslie Brockert (Kennard) Oct 26, 2025

Dear Kuckelman family, I am deeply sorry to hear about Jacob's passing. I have the sweetest memories of babysitting for your family in my college years. Jacob was the sweetest boy, and I enjoyed reading about the fine young man he grew to be. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Jalen O’Neil Lowry Oct 26, 2025

law school ,Topeka ,Kansas

Jacob will be sorely missed by so many. I was fortunate to have known Jacob during his time in law school and to have experienced his good manners, his sense of humor, and his love of life. He was proud of the many members of his family who had attended Washburn Law, including his father, uncle, brother Matthew (currently attending), and his cousin Christopher, whom I also had the pleasure of knowing. My deep condolences to them and to Jacob's mother and sister, and to the rest of the Kuckleman family. He was proud of you and I know that you must have been very proud of him. --Jalen Lowry, Assoc. Dean for Student Affairs, retired 2023

LeEtta Felter Oct 26, 2025

Friend ,Olathe ,Kansas

We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Jacob. We will be lifting up your family in prayer. He seemed like an amazing you man and a son you can forever be proud of. Jib and LeEtta Felter and family

Kent Harris Oct 26, 2025

Professional colleague ,Pleasanton ,Kansas

To the Kuckelman Family So very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow. Kent Harris

Ann Triggs Linder Oct 27, 2025

College friend Jo ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Jo and family - I am so sorry to hear about your loss. You are in my heart, thoughts and prayers. Ann Triggs Linder

Gina & Miles Faust Oct 27, 2025

London Friends ,St Louis ,Missouri

Jo, Mike, Sara & Matthew, Words cannot express how heartbroken we are for you and your family. We remember your warmth and friendship from our days in London, and have such fond memories of Jacob and Mikey together, full of laughter and playing football in the back garden or building creations with their Lego sets. There are no simple words that can ease your pain, but please know that we are praying for you and sending love. May you find strength in the love surrounding you and comfort in the beautiful memories you shared with Jacob. We are so sorry for your loss. May God wrap you in His loving arms and give you strength and peace.

Emma Morrissey Oct 27, 2025

Washburn Law Classmate ,Topeka ,Kansas

Jacob had an energy that genuinely elevated every room he walked into. He was a true friend to anyone who needed one, and I will always remember him for his laughter and the way he could bring out the best in those around him.

Jim Reist Oct 27, 2025

Friend ,Austin ,Texas

Mike, I was heartbroken to hear about your sonā€˜s passing. I can’t begin to imagine the pain you are feeling, but know that I’m holding you and your family close to my thoughts. Your sonā€˜s memory will live on in the hearts of everyone who knew him.

Marearl and Jim Denning Oct 27, 2025

Friend ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Our deepest condolences to your family. May memories help your hearts heal. Blessings.

Marisel Walston Oct 27, 2025

Family Friend ,Lenexa ,Kansas

I am heart broken for the loss of your son Jacob. I know there are no words to ease your pain. The loss of a child is unimaginable. I am praying that God will wrap His loving arms around all of you and give you strength when you feel you cannot take another step, and comfort when the pain feels unbearable. May His peace that passes all understanding guard your hearts. In Christian love and sympathy, Marisel Walston

Lynda McCoy Oct 27, 2025

Previously worked with Jacob's father. ,Olathe ,Kansas

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Mary Campbell Oct 27, 2025

Friend ,Leawood ,Kansas

Jo and Mike, Our sincere sympathy is with you. We are so very sorry for your loss. Please know you are in our prayers. Mary and John Campbell

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Rosary
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Church of the Ascension
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9510 West 127th Street
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Overland Park
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Kansas
Zip Code:
66213
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Oct 28, 2025
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Overland Park
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66213
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Oct 28, 2025
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Church of the Ascension
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Overland Park
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Oct 29, 2025
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