Sep 12,1947---Mar 25,2021

Overland Park, Kansas - On this 25th day of March, 2021 at 11:57am, Cassmera, at the young age of 73 years, passed through the veils, while at home, in the loving arms of LadyHawk, her wife of 35 years. Softly, gently, Cassmera bid a loving farewell and quietly embarked on her next journey with blessings from her daughters from other mothers. Proud of being born and raised a “Dot” girl, Cassmera lived most of her life in Overland Park, Kansas. Although she worked for a number of years as a headhunter for several major corporations and taught classes at the Dale Carnegie Institute, she found her true calling in offering spiritual guidance and counseling to countless thousands over her near four decade career. Often she would open heart and home for those in need. For seven weekends a year, spanning 38 years, she could be found in her house, “Mystic Manor”, in the KCRF’s “Dunwoodie Dell”, offering her renowned and insightful readings to those seeking her counsel. The rest of the year, she traveled, with her wife by her side, across 13 states sharing guidance, love and acceptance. She was a founding member of the Psychic Research Society (“PRS”), and a founder and minister of the Crystal Church of Universal Love. Cassmera’s beauty, grace and striking blue eyes will be deeply missed, “Hail and Farewell, Queen”. In lieu of flowers or memorials, please donate to a food pantry or no-kill animal shelter of your choice in Cassmera’s name. She is survived by her wife LadyHawk, her cousin “Vickie Sue” Kilgore; Jolene Marie, their four-legged, fur daughter; and, her daughters from other mothers.


Anna Mar 27 ,2021

Cousin ,Gladstone ,Missouri

I will miss you dear cousin! Your vitality, warmth and compass will live on in all of us whose lives you touched with unconditional love and support. I love you and refuse to say goodbye so I will just say ‘til we meet again! ❤️

Tika/Wahabah Carol Matthews Mar 31 ,2021

Old Rennie Compatriot ,KIngston ,New York

All blessings upon your life and memory. You are enshrined forever on the altar of many hearts. Godness speed to your place of renewal, fellowship, rest and peace. And have a party while you're at it.

David Milam Apr 05 ,2021

Cousin ,Danville ,California

From the first time I met cousin Connie I was hooked on her wonderful personality and insightful nature. She was gracious, funny, always loving life, and quick to size-up a situation and recommend a successful path forward. The entire Milam family arm of the family tree were touched deeply by Connie. Now that she’s joined her dad and mom, I’m sure she’s passionately debating both of them and winning the daily argument with a huge smile on her lovely face. Connie kick your shoes off and dance. Love you girl. Cousin David

Heather Ciesla Apr 06 ,2021

Daughter from another mother ,Buffalo ,New York

Connie will be truly missed. I was blessed to meet her over 20 years ago. I have always loved how warm and sweet Connie was and will cherish our memories together. Everytime I see a purple butterfly I will think of her. You are truly missed.

Scott Milam Apr 07 ,2021

Cousin ,Bakersfield ,California

Cousin Connie was a cute preteen young girl when we meant. Our moms were sisters. Connie was from Kansas and I was from California. I remember her as a happy young girl. As the years went on we talked on the telephone and meant again just a few times. Connie had a wonderful deep laugh that was contagious. Our families loved her and will miss her. ❤️