Joseph H. Muder, Age :33
Oct 29,1986---May 02,2020

Joseph H. Muder the loving son of Martin and DeAnna Muder. Age 33, of Bonner Springs Kansas passed away Saturday, May 2nd, 2020. A Catholic mass of celebration will be said at 11:00am Monday, May 11th at Holy Angels Catholic Church 14538 Leavenworth Road, Basehor Kansas 66007.  Due to COVID-19 and social distancing, attendance is being limited to immediate family only, a celebration of life for all to attend will be announced at a later date. 

Joe was born October 29th, 1986 in Kansas City, Kansas. He was a caring brother to his siblings; Nellie Muder Hughey (Jason), Margaret Muder Egelhoff (Kyle), Samuel Muder (Ashley), Emma Muder and Lillian Muder. He was the playful, rule breaking uncle to Daisy Jo Hughey and countless others. Uncle Joe was gentle and loving to our newest addition, Annabelle the daughter of Sam and Ashley. Joe, a son, a brother, and a friend to many, never knew a stranger. He took on everyone's emotions and troubles as if they were his own. He was loyal and cherished the friendships he had made throughout his life. He was a proud member of the Glaziers Union Local #558, talented musician who played the drums for 25 years, graduate of Immaculata High School of Leaventhworth, Kansas class of 2005 and a pontifical server at Cathedral of St. Peters in Kansas City, Kansas. Joe lived life to the fullest, worked hard, and knew no fear. He will be terribly missed by his mother, father, family, friends, and his best friend, the one and only Brune-Dog. 

In lieu of flowers the family has started a memorial fund in honor of Joe’s life, which will help families of individuals battling with substance abuse. Donations may be made to First State Bank & Trust in Basehor, Kansas.


Jamey Rodriguez (Wade) May 07 ,2020

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this unimaginably difficult and painful time. Joe was such a great guy, always brought laughter and smiles to anybody who were lucky to cross paths with him. I was blessed to get to cross paths with him on so many occasions! Sending all of my love and positive thoughts to all of you.

Vanessa Gearheart May 07 ,2020

family friend ,Melbourne ,Florida

I am deeply sorry for your families loss. I knew Joe well and loved his sweet soul. I hope he is at peace. God bless you all! Many prayers for your family! Vanessa Gearheart

Nancy Heintzelman May 07 ,2020

Friend ,Kansas City

I am so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers from my whole family are with you. May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed Rest In Peace. God Bless all of you.

Kelly Lipovitz May 07 ,2020

I am so sorry for this terrible loss. My prayers are with all of you.

Sue and Stephen Hoffman May 07 ,2020

family friend ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Our love and sympathy to your family at this difficult time. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love to you all. Stephen and Sue

Jeanene Marie May 07 ,2020

Cousin ,Lawrence ,Kansas

Ah the Martin Earl bunch! I am so sorry for your heavy hearted loss. Thoughts are with all of you in this time of need and support! Love you all!

Jim Malloy May 07 ,2020

Cousin ,Meriden ,Kansas

Are thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time. Nothing I can say will dull the pain. Just know we love you and praying for quick comfort for one and all. Love you all. Jim & Pam Malloy

Shelly Bogart (Pauley) May 07 ,2020

Friend ,Gainesboro

My thoughts and prayers are with all of his friends and family through this difficult time. Joe will always be remembered for his talent on the drums, his laugh and his friendship. Fly high Joe, you are missed by so many.

Pam Kirkpatrick May 07 ,2020

family friend ,Basehor ,Kansas

My entire family is heartbroken. Joe will be remembered as that friendly, fun-loving young man that never knew a stranger. He was so kind to my family and always took the time to stop and chat when he saw me. Keeping all of the Muder family in our prayers. God bless all of you and may you find comfort in knowing that Joe is at peace now and resting in God's arms.

Aunt Connie May 07 ,2020

Aunt ,El Dorado Springs ,Missouri

Joe will be missed by so many. What a good hearted guy he was, and had your back. He was so very proud of his family. He will be greatly missed.

Jamie Sue May 07 ,2020

Cousin ,Basehor ,Kansas

I am so very sorry for your loss, I cannot imagine the pain. All my baby Muder's hold a special place in my heart. I am thankful that Joe is no longer suffering. I know that you guys are a family of very strong faith and I know that faith is what will get you through this. I love each and everyone of you!

Mary Kay Traffis May 07 ,2020

Friend ,Kansas City ,Kansas

I am so heart broken to hear this news. My heart bleeds for the family. I can not imagine your loss. Hugs and prayers coming your way. Mary Kay

Debbie Reiling DeSelms May 07 ,2020

Cousin ,Topeka ,Kansas

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the whole Muder family at this sad time. God bless you and comfort you.

Irene Cabello May 07 ,2020

Friend of Becca Mudder ,Chicago ,Illinois

Dear Becca and family, there are no words that can be said to comfort you at this time. Just know that I am with you in spirit and am praying for you.

Samantha May 07 ,2020

Friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Sending all of my love to your family at this time. Joe was such an incredible person who accepted anyone and everyone into his heart. I am truly saddened at the loss of such a beautiful soul. The world is a little less bright today. Thinking of you always.

Andy Harding May 07 ,2020

WOW! So sorry for your loss. Prayers for your Peace. LOVE YOUR WAY!!!

Lisa May 07 ,2020

Friend ,Basehor ,Kansas

Very saddened to hear the news. I met Joe 10 years ago. Whenever I saw him he was always happy & brought a smile to others. I pray your family finds comfort in each-other and memories of Joe. May God hold you all close.

Marsha Gonzalez May 07 ,2020

Friend ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Deanna, Marty, Nellie, Sam, Margaret, Emma and Lily, my heart hurts so much for all of you. Sending my Love and prayers. Peace and Gods love and comfort be with you all through this. Much love, Marsha

Bob O’Neill and family May 07 ,2020

Family friend ,Olathe ,Kansas

Our family sends lots of prayers and love. We pray for peace for each of you during this difficult time. We have wonderful memories of Joe. He always made us laugh and he was such a kind guy. Love you all and know you are in our thoughts every day

Katie Coldwell May 07 ,2020

Maryknoll connection ,Milwaukee ,Wisconsin

Sending so much love and care to you and your family, Becca. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Please know I am thinking of you :)

Chyleen Pauesick May 07 ,2020

Friend of the family ,Kansas city ,Kansas

To the Muder family, you have my heartfelt condolences, as you go through this terrible time. You are in my prayers. I pray that Gods love for you and knowing that many friends love all of you, will help you through this. Peace be with you. Chyleen and Paul Pauesick

Mike Hemann Family May 08 ,2020

Friend of family ,Greenwood ,South Carolina

Marty, Deanna and family, our hearts go out to you and your family during this time. We were so sorry to hear the news about Joe. I know you guys have a very close family and will get through this. If there is anything we can do to help please let us know.

AnnMarie Kerr May 08 ,2020

Family friend ,Lake Tapawingo ,Missouri

I am so sorry. Joe was such a wonderful boy. I have great memories of all of our children together❤️. God bless you all. I miss you and love you. One-five forever❤️❤️❤️

Angelica Otting May 08 ,2020

I'm so sorry for your loss. My love & prayers are with you & your family during this time of mourning.

Scott and Larinda Fandrich May 08 ,2020

Friends ,LINCOLN

We are so sorry for the loss of your beloved son and brother. May God wrap his arms around you and give you peace. We are keeping all of you in our hearts and prayers.

Janice Kraly May 08 ,2020

friend of the family ,Kansas City ,Kansas

From the Kraly family our thought and prayers go to the entire family.

Arlie and Karen Fandrich May 08 ,2020

Ashley Muder’s grandparents ,Lincoln ,Nebraska

We are heartbroken for your family. After reading all the beautiful comments about Joe, I’m so sorry we didn’t get to know him better. We love your family and grieve with you. Praying that you will feel God wrapping his arms around you giving you peace and comfort.

Michael Minard May 08 ,2020

Friend ,Kansas City ,Missouri

So sorry for your loss. Prayers sent for the family

Erika Benskin May 08 ,2020

Friend ,Gardner ,Kansas

So sorry to hear of your loss. Your family is is in my thoughts and prayers at this most painful time.....Hugs!!!

Bonnie-Lyn Ray May 09 ,2020

Lilly's Teacher ,Overland Park ,Kansas

Sweet Lilly and family - We are so very sorry for your loss. The Rays will keep you lifted in prayer. Much love and may Joseph's memory always be kept alive through the incredible spirits of all of his brothers and sisters. Love, Mrs. Ray

Kay Gedminas May 10 ,2020

Friend of family ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Marty & Deanna, my heart aches for you and your family. I’m so sorry to hear of Joe’s passing. My thoughts and my prayers are with you.

Nancy Cahill-Rose May 10 ,2020

Friend ,Lenexa ,Kansas

My heart aches for you, no loss is as great as a child. Memories are the legacy of love and I'm sure you have millions to comfort you during this time. You're in my prayers.

Emily Inman May 10 ,2020

Friend ,Kansas City ,Missouri

David and I are so sorry for your loss, and hope memories will comfort you. You are in our thoughts, and in our hearts.

Frances Sanders May 10 ,2020

Friend ,Kansas City ,Missouri

Deanna and all the Muders, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May perpetual light shine upon Joseph.

Sister Therese Bangert May 10 ,2020

Friend ,Kansas City ,Kansas

Deanna, Marty, Lilly and all Joe’s siblings, I read with disbelief Joe’s obituary in today’s STAR. O your broken, pain-filled hearts. I know God’s GRACE is with you. You have my Love and Prayers. Deanna, I think you can find me if you would like me to pray with you or to just listen. I care. No doubt all your family had shared Joe’s struggle.

Dom DeRosa May 10 ,2020

My thoughts and prayers go out to you during this time.

Kansas City Skin and Cancer Center May 11 ,2020

Margaret, We are all thinking about you and your family and send our deepest condolences!

Sarah Saheb May 11 ,2020

Friend ,Bonner ,Kansas

I'm so sorry for your lost. Amazing as joe is it's sad to see him go. He always cracking jokes. He actually told me to quit eating cotton candy, because it was making him sick watching me eat it. Silly goose.

Katy Green May 12 ,2020

Family friend ,Shawnee ,Kansas

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. I never got to meet Joe, but I can tell he was a loving and fun person to be around; he will be missed. We are here for you if you need anything! ~The Green’s

Funeral Mass
Holy Angles Catholic Church
15440 Leavenworth Road
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May 11 ,2020
11:00 AM
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