Mary Retta Schnitker, Age: 79
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Sep 18, 1939---Dec 07, 2018


 

 

Mary Retta Schnitker passed away peacefully on December 7, 2018. 

Visitation will be held from 6-7:30 PM Thursday, December 13, 2018 at the Lenexa Baptist Church, Lenexa, Kansas.

Memorial Services will be 10:30 AM Friday, December 14, 2018 at Lenexa Baptist Church.  Rev. Kelly Hughes and Rev. Bill Shiflett will officiate.

Burial will take place in Mt. Moriah Cemetery, Kansas City, Missouri.

 

 

Mar-retta, as her mother called her, was born to Leonard and Margaret Weddle on September 18, 1939 in Grandview, Missouri. Mary grew up in Wheatland, Missouri and graduated from the University of Missouri School of Home Economics.  After graduating from MU, she taught Home Economics at Baptiste Junior High in the Hickman Mills School district.  A fellow teacher set her up on a blind date with Robert O. Schnitker (Bob) and they were married on June 18, 1966. During their life together, they lived in Independence, MO; Arlington, TX; Nevada, MO; Wichita, KS; and Olathe, KS.  Mary’s joy in life was creating a home for her family; and planning celebrations and dinners for family and friends – she loved to entertain!   Mary was an active member of church everywhere they lived, most recently belonging to Lenexa Baptist Church, Lenexa, KS.


She was a beloved wife, adored mother, loved sister and aunt, and treasured friend to many.  Mary is survived by her husband Bob, of the home; daughter and son-in-law, DeAnn and Steve Berndsen; brother and wife, Doug and Julia Weddle; niece Brenda Helbing and her family. Mary was proceeded in death by her parents; sister Carol Ann Weddle; and nephew, Jason Weddle.


In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial contributions to The Arthritis Foundation as Mary suffered from arthritis all of her adult life, and Kansas City Hospice, as they provided much comfort during her last weeks.


 


Condolences

David & Patsy McCullough Dec 08, 2018

Neighbors & friends ,Nevada ,Missouri

We were greatly saddened to learn of Mary’s death today. She was the very best neighbor & a treasured friend. Our girls spend hours at her home, learning all sorts of neat things! Her faith was great and she helped me to grow mine. Even though we did not see each other, we still felt connected and our life was made richer by knowing and loving her. Love & prayers to you all. David & Patsy

Judy Schneider Dec 08, 2018

Friend ,Indianapolis

I am so sorry to hear of Mary’s passing. My prayers are sent to entire family.

Joan Gledhill Dec 09, 2018

Friend ,Jacksonville ,Florida

My son, David, just sent me the obit about Mary Schnitker whom I knew when my family lived in Overland Park. We spent some time at her house enjoying the fruits of her labor as she enjoyed cooking and entertaining. We never went away without a recipe!! My sincere condolences to Bob and her daughter and other family members that I did not know. May God give you peace in the coming days. At Christmas time, a death in the family is a sad time for all members of the family.

Beth Shurtz Dec 09, 2018

Friend ,Southlake ,Texas

I was so sad to hear of Mary’s passing. I have many fond memories of her – she had a great sense of humor and a kind, gentle, and generous spirit! Sending thoughts and prayers from Texas.

Dawn Dec 10, 2018

My deepest condolences to the family at this difficult time. I hope the words at Rev.21:4 bring you comfort. It says: "God will wipe out every tear from their eyes,and death will be no more,neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Betty Mathis Dec 17, 2018

Friend ,Independence ,Missouri

Dee and Bob, am so very sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers

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Visitation
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Lenexa Baptist Church
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15320 West 87th Street
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Lenexa
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66219
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Dec 13, 2018
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6:00 PM
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Lenexa Baptist Church
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15320 West 87th Street
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Lenexa
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Date:
Dec 14, 2018
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10:30 AM
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