Apr 04, 1943---Apr 17, 2024

Ross James McVey, 81, of Overland Park, KS passed away peacefully at Kansas City Hospice House on April 17, 2024.  Ross was born in Wilmington, DE on April 4, 1943 to E. Ross McVey and Catherine Henry McVey, who preceded him in death, and grew up in Falling Waters, WV.  He attended St. Charles College, a preparatory seminary for the priesthood, in Baltimore, MD until 1962 when he transferred to West Virginia University.  While at WVU he met his wife, Vicki Sue Thomas, whom he married on June 26, 1965.  Ross and Vicki relocated to Pittsburgh, PA where Ross worked for Arthur Anderson & Co. and later had two children, Victoria Susan McVey Conley (1966) and Ross James Jr. (1967).  In 1969 he received his CPA.

The family moved to Kansas City where he was employed by United Telecom.  In 1987, Ross and Vicki moved to Middleton, WI where he worked for Telephone and Data Systems until he retired in 2001.  They moved back to Kansas in 2013, settling in Overland Park.  Ross was a proud member of the Knights of Columbus and Ancient Order of Hibernians.  He loved his family, fishing, reading, traveling and God!

Ross is survived by his wife Vicki Sue Thomas McVey, daughter Victoria McVey Conley (Bill), son Ross James McVey Jr. (Donna), and grandchildren:  Johnathon Bliss (Danielle), Jordan Bliss (Tony), Ross Thomas McVey (Lexi), Benton Belzer (Anna), Caitlyn McVey, Rayna Belzer, Sarah Conley, Fred McVey and Holden McVey.

A visitation will be held from 10:30-11:30 a.m. with Funeral Mass at 11:30 a.m. on Wednesday, April 24, 2024 at Cure of Ars Catholic Church, 9405 Mission Rd., Leawood, Kansas.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the National MS Society  (Donate Now - National MS Society) or Kansas City Hospice House, 12000 Wornall Road, Kansas City, MO  64145 (Make a Donation - Kansas City Hospice & Palliative Care (kchospice.org)).

 



Condolences

Sharon Betlac Apr 18, 2024

Friend ,Fitchurg ,Wisconsin

My deepest sympathies Vicki. Family, friends and faith will provide love and support as you continue your life journey.

Tony Mignini Apr 18, 2024

Former Classmate at St. Charles College ,Naples ,Florida

Vicki, So sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences. I will notify our St. Charles classmates of Ross’s passing and ask for their prayers for Ross and for you and your family. May he rest in peace! Tony Mignini St. Charles College Class of 1963

(empty)Mike Lardner Apr 18, 2024

Classmate at St. Charles ,RALEIGH ,North Carolina

I have such fond memories of Ross when we were kids. I was telling Tony Mignini tonight that when we were in about second year of high school, I was trying to umpire at first base. Ross was up at bat and I called him safe at first base. He turned and looked at me and said, "I wasn't safe, you need to learn how to umpire." So, he wouldn't stay on first and went to the bench. I am sure that the integrity he learned from his parents and in the minor seminary stayed with him for life. My condolences to your whole family. We will remember him and all of you in our prayers.

Mary Pat Braun Apr 19, 2024

Friend ,Madison ,Wisconsin

Dear Vicki and family, I am so sorry to hear of Ross’s death. Your memories will comfort you in the days ahead. Know that you are in my prayers. Always, Mary Pat Braun Madison, Wisconsin

LINDA K MUSIAL LINTNER Apr 19, 2024

Dear Vicki, I am saddened to hear of Ross' passing. I remember you two as a loving couple. May all the love and good times you shared sustain you now and bring you peace. My condolences to you and your family. With sympathy, Linda Musial-Lintner

Rose Petitto Marshall Apr 20, 2024

fried ,Morgantown, ,West Virginia

So sad to read this news. My sypathy to Vicki and the McVey family. Fondly, Rose

Pamela Pappas Apr 21, 2024

Friend ,Uxbridge ,Maryland

You have my deepest condolences. May his soul rest in peace.

Dave Seibel Apr 22, 2024

Friend ,Wild Rose ,Wisconsin

Vicki, sorry to hear the news about Ross. The Greater Madison Fishing Club sends our condolences. Ross joined us in Canada for many years walleye fishing. The gallery photo is a picture of one of our many catches. Ross loved being in Canada and we enjoyed his friendship, infectious laugh, and love of pie! We will always remember Ross as one of our founding members.

Mary and Dave Joyce Apr 27, 2024

Friends from Cure of Ars ,Overland Park, KS ,Kansas

Vicki and family, So very sad to learn of Ross’ passing. I have kept you both in my prayers and have thought of you both. My disease has continued to progress and my mobility makes it very hard to get out. I fondly remember our visits after Mass. May God bless you and give comfort at this sad time. Love, Mary and Dave

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Services

Event:
Visitation
Location:
Cure of Ars Catholic Church
Address:
9405 Mission Road
City:
Leawood
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66206
Date:
Apr 24, 2024
Time:
10:30 AM
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Event:
Funeral Mass
Location:
Cure of Ars Catholic Church
Address:
9405 Mission Road
City:
Leawood
State:
Kansas
Zip Code:
66206
Date:
Apr 24, 2024
Time:
11:30 AM
Google Map: